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Things That I'll Never Forget

Hey people..It's like 4:30a.m and I can't sleep,been going around,reading blogs and I got inspired to drop something here.But before I do that,I shall give you a few gists..

I am going to London for 3 weeks soon,and I have like 3 lists titled "Things to buy".."Stuff to take"..and "London Prep"..You see,I am a very organized person,and when things are not in order I start to panic,it's just the way I are.So I'm going shopping next week,and then I'll pack.

..I think that's the only gist I have,I probably forgot the rest,pardon my CRS(can't remember shit)

So back to the why I started this post..things that I'll never forget

1. The day that phone rang, my aunt answered it and 2 secs later she started crying. She said my mom died(durring Hajj),I ran to the neighbor's,called all my friends and bought candies,I don't know what I was thinking,but I think I thought dying meant something good and happy

2.The times when my dad played "single dad"..He'd wake my brother and I,give us a bath,and get us ready for school,help us with our homeworks after work and take us out on weekends.Then one day I had hair lice cuz he always forgot to wash my hair,and he packed our stuff and took us to some family friend's house.

3.Living in a full house with aunts,uncles,cousins,siblings,maids and what not..That meant more fun,playing whot all day during the holidays,going out to parks,shopping,lunch and late night solo of suya,icecream,indomie or anything yummy

4.Getting my first mobile phone,I was 14 and the only student with a mobile phone..It was a Nokia 88--

5.All the weddings in the Sanusi Family,planning secret parties for the bride and groom without the grown-ups knowing,amen!

6.The day I left Nigeria

7.The day I became Sickle cell anaemia free

8.The day my dad cried cuz he missed my mom,I thought he had forgotten about her and fallen in love with my step mom

9.Falling in love

10.Learning who I was,what I wanted,who I wanted to be on my hospital bed

The list is getting long and endless,plus babygirl is bored..I need to go pack,or eat,or sleep,or umm..ok bye,x

Latest obsessions

:-My new camera (Canon EOS 450D)

*loves it to death,heaven and back!

:- All the stuff I got while shopping with my dad

*No,I'm not telling you what they're

:- The lovely et thoughtful presents I got on my birthday

*I especially love the beautiful jewelries(?),the pink swarovski case for my blackberry,the poster with pictures of I and my friends from times we spent together

:-The loves of my life

*I've finally learnt to focus on those who love me and care about me,and just let those who don't go..no bitchassness allowed!

:-Twittering

*It's the new ish and it's fun!

:-Sunshine sunshine

*I roll out of bed,look out my window to see how sunny it is,then quickly shower and head out,amen to sunshine,amen!

:-The Climb by Miley Cyrus

*I'm not really a fan but I love this song,you gotta check it out,it's good for inspiration/motivation

:-Icecream and Icecream cakes

*Haägen dasz,and any other italian icecream store I spot

♥Lastly,saving the best for last, I am obsessed with S.D,but I won't comment or tell you about him,because then,you'd fall in love with him too :P

Family and Forever 21

Hey guys,how's it going? I'm blank at the moment,but I feel the urge to blog..so here goes..

..I'm gonna start with what I've been upto..and then what's on my mind..

hehe..hope you likey :-]

..My parents came to visit me,along with my lil bro.It was mucho fun like always,spent time together,went shopping(someone say amen),took them to watch Slumdog Millionaire(which they loved),went out to dinner,chilled at home and ate all sorts of junk,and everyone complained about how I take too many pictures and how I might aswell open a studio and become a real photographer. You know,that's not a bad idea,I like the sound of it.When I'm done studying Business Administration,I'm gonna go polish my photography skills and then we'll see about that studio..hehe*

..So after the folks left,I got around to finally planning my 21st birthday.Been through a lot lately that I didn't even wanna celebrate my birthday anymore(this is coming from someone who usually plans her birthday atleast 4weeks before the date).Anyhoo,I finally decided to do something so I wouldn't end up regretting not celebrating my 21st,and hey..you only turn 21 once,it's a huge,big deal.

..I ordered cakes,yes cakes,there were 2 of them..yummy yummy,reserved a table at a really nice restaurant to have dinner with friends during the weekend,and then decided to go to Lionel Richie's concert on my day.It was mucho fun,he's sooo good,rawr*..I wish he could be my sugar daddy,no kidding! The birthday dinner was fun as well,I kinda thought it would suck since I've never celebrated my birthday on a different date,but it was soo much fun,too many jokes,laughter and love all around,not to mention the many surprise presents I got.I felt,and still feel loved *blush..And thank you once again to those who called/smsed/facebook walled,messaged me to wish me a tres happy bday,I really appreciate it.

Dating and Love

So if you spend five minutes talking to me,you'll know that I'm a sucka for love.(Listen to Sucka for love by Danity Kane). I'm just the type of girl who loves to fall in love,smile for no reason,listen to songs while thinking of him e.t.c..I have been in many relationships,and they all ended badly.What I don't understand is why I never give up,instead I fall again within weeks! Yes,weeks!People always tell me I never learn my lesson,but no matter how hurt I get and how bad the relationship sucked,I still fall.I believe in love,ofcourse it's not easy,it has a lot of downsides,but like I said,I love the whole losing myself in him and us.It worries me that my relationships don't last long.And when I break up with a guy,weeks later you ask me if there's any new guy and I deny it..if you know me well you'll know that I'm lying.I'm ALWAYS in love.Poeple see me as someone who dates for the heck of it,and then leave when it starts to get bad and get someone else but that's not who I am.For starters,I wouldn't date you if I wasn't mad about you.I don't do relationships for lack of better things to do with my time and emotion.I take love seriously,and when I feel like I'm not getting what I want from a relationship and you're not doing anything to give me what I need(nothing sexual),then yes,I'll leave.I always like to fight for it first though,I like to devote myself to the relationship and give it/him everything I've got,so when it's time to let go,I have no regrets,because I know that I tried.And I thank God for giving me the strength and courage to always get up and leave when I'm not being appreciated or cherished.I don't want to be that woman who sits and quietly takes crap from people,I don't like to settle for less,I deserve to love and be loved in return,I deserve to be treated right.I know EXACTLY what I want and I won't stop at NOTHING till I get it.I won't sacrifice my happiness and settle for less when I know there's ALWAYS,always someone out there who'll be more than happy to give me everything I want,all it takes is to go find him..

..So next time I tell you I'm in love with someone else,please don't judge me or criticize me for dating and then breaking up with guys,I just need to find my own,and sitting and wishing for him to appear won't bring him to me,I gotta find my love!..Oh,I just did *grins..Hey I said no judging,but if you must,know that in years to come,I'll be the one with the happy relationship I always wanted and you'll be stuck with the guy who doesn't give a fiddler's fart about you and all you can do is sit and wait for him to change..Goodluck waiting,I can see that time is on your side.



xoxo..lover girl

I <3 Spring

Hey everyone! Kwana biyu ("It's been a minute" in my language)..I'm sure ya'll didn't miss me,I wonder how many people read my blog..hmm
So spring FINALLY came..If you live in a country where you have to go through months of extreme cold weather,many many degrees below zero,having to constantly wear jackets,boots,gloves and scarves,being locked up at home cuz it's too damn cold to step out,then you'll understand how happy I became when spring came.It was like a kid who finally made straight As and got the perfect present at the end of school year.I've been going out alot,all that sexy sunny weather won't go wasted.I'm addicted to icecream and icecream cakes *drools*..I went shopping for colorful tops and jewelry,and I got a new bikini..swimming,here I come! So since I'm always out doing something,I'm beginning to fear that by the time Summer is here,I would have ran out of fun things to do and places to go.So far I've gone to Schoenbrunn(It's that Palace in Vienna that has huge gardens and a Zoo,google it),I went to parks,lunch with the girls,clubbing in my "Wonder Woman" corset as my baby called it,and I even went to a department store to look at washing machines cuz mine won't work anymore.I didn't buy a new one though,I just needed a reason to step out of the house *hehe*..My dad is coming to see me next week *woot*..should be fun seeing him after months,going shopping with him (bless your soul and wallet father) and being pampered by him.He won't stay long but he'll be coming back for my 21st birthday in 3 weeks,I love my daddy!..So here are a few pictures from Spring,enjoy and hope ya'll are having a nice spring-ish beautiful weather filled with fun and love!

Do You Know?

~Do you know what it feels like to go to bed worried about whether or not you'd live to see morning?

~Do you know what it feels like to wake up and burst into tears because you've been given another chance,another day? Grateful for that?

~Do you know what it feels like to hear doctors say you can't make it and there's no hope?

~Do you know what it feels like to stay strong when the odds are high?

~Do you know what it feels like to be haunted by your past, unhappy with your present and uncertain about the future? Do you?!

~Do you know what it feels like to smile when all you really wanna do is break down and cry?

~Do you know what it feels like to have your neck and back ache from being too weak and bended by life's burdens?

~Do you know what it feels like when the only people you can relate too are those suffering and not happy people?

~Do you know what it feels like to question everyone's loyalty in your life? Afraid they might not stand by you?

~Do you know what it feels like to wake up in the morning and realize everyone who promised to be there walked out and left?

~Do you know what it feels like to wonder if God is still there? To beg Him not to let go?

~Do you know what it feels like to lose faith and feel so lost?

~Do you know what it feels like to pray with all your heart that the end of your suffering will be here,and not death? Do you?!

"You know nothing about my life,what I've been through,what I'm going through,and what my struggle is all about"