…otherwise it will pass you by!
I’m not here to preach,but I’m going to beg you all,including me,to live our lives to the fullest. Because life goes by so fast and suddenly you realize a lot has happened or changed, you realize you’re not getting any younger, you realize you’ve been too busy making plans and dreaming to actually live those dreams. Sometimes we get so caught up in random and pointless things that we don’t see the beauty in the rain falling (yeah I know it just messed up your hair and Burberry shoes), and then suddenly there’re no flowers growing and no food in the farms and it hits you that there’s no rain! Well guess what,it came but you were too busy worrying about your messed up hair and clothes to appreciate it. I try to always smile,laugh,live and love, and I believe everyone should,we only have one life and its such a privilege to be able to still breathe when millions are fighting for their lives and other millions are dead and gone. The least we could do is truly live the life we’re given borrowed.
Girls fight over things I can’t even begin to understand, it might be a silly,or serious issue,but whatever it is, why do we have to let our pride get in the way? Will “I’m sorry” really take something away from you? If you’re even planning on apologizing why not just do it now rather than wait on the other person to say sorry first,you have a chance of reaching out to your friend or family just as much as they do. Life scares me,after all my experiences and challenges,it still scares me,because guess what,it’s so full of surprises, and the worst part is just when you think you’re ready and prepared you get knocked off your feet,then you wonder what happened to the lessons you learnt and the times when you thought you’re ready for anything and everything. Nothing is guaranteed, say what you have to say today because I might not be here tomorrow..and tomorrow is only 24 hours away anyway. If you’re too proud to be the bigger person and apologize then think about this. If something happens to your friend or family tomorrow and you didn’t get to say all you needed to,will you regret it? If your answer is yes then why waste time beating around the bush when you know nothing’s for sure,if your answer however is no..then good luck with your grudge.
The rain might mess up your day but it smells heavenly and comes with beautiful flowers and food, the sun might threaten to melt you down but summer is still fun and it’s all about the sunshine, winter might be too cold but how else are we supposed to appreciate the sun when it comes back in April? Being sick sucks big time,especially the whole pills and needles part, and in some cases surgeries and risky treatments, but that’s the best way to teach us about appreciating our health.Situations suck,but we learn and grow from them, and being positive through out them will make us stronger, confident and teach us how to appreciate the hardships in life,for there’s no rainbow without rain,or is it storm? Hmm.. how about this : No pain, no gain..every Nigerian can testify to that,amen!
I always try my best to be there for anyone who needs me,friends or family, to always smile,even when something is killing me inside, to love,everyone who knows me can testify that I’m a sucker for love, and to live my life to the fullest, trust me its not as easy as it looks on the outside, I’m going through a lot just like you and others, but I still drop my sad and blue days to hang out with friends and family,shop,drool over Usher and watch his live performances for the umpteenth time,shop,fall in love,smile and make others smile,and fall in love again.I’m scared of life and its surprises, but I’m also terrified of letting life pass me by because I was too caught up in something I was going through or because I was too distracted by silly things that didn’t matter. No one wants to grow old or die with regrets, and we all want to be remembered by the joys,laughter,smiles and love that came with us,with or without the complications in our lives. People are dying and it could be me tomorrow,or you,so I guess what I’m trying to say is live,laugh and love today,forgive,apologize,smile and live life to the fullest!
..Here’s a song by Miley Cyrus(I know I’m 21 but hey,don’t judge),listen to it,and by listen I mean the words not the beats ;)
XoXo



