I know..I know..I've written about Love many times before,I just can't help it,blame my heart.And please,listen to me,Lol..For the first time in my life I'm experiencing a different kind of love,I can't explain,I can just tell.And it feels really really good.He's got me doing things I would never do,my heart skips a bit just by thinking about him *blush*..So I tried to sit down,think and analyze why this time is different from all the other times or why he is different from all the other guys but I didn't succeed.All I know is that he ALWAYS knows the right things to say or do.I never have to ask for anything because he gives me what I want and need.I don't have to do much because he understands that it's I and him in the relationship so it's both our responsibility to make it work..God knows I've always wanted this and finally..I found it & him *blush again*..Our relationship reminds me of Dawn and Que from Making the Band.
I'll explain why,Dawn is someone who has gone through a lot of hardship and heartache in her life,and she's had to put up with guys who didn't know how to be "the man" in their relationship,so basically she was the one who was always trying to make things work and make her man happy without getting much in return.Then she finally founds Que,or rather..Que finds her,sees the strength and beauty in her and takes it upon himself to be her Superman *cough*..The whole story is cheesy but beautiful,and I can relate to them.There's a video where Que does something nice for Dawn that it touches her heart and she confesses to him that she's never been that happy with a guy before because no guy has ever given or shown her that much love.
I understand why the little things her man does would make her smile,because it's what she wants and finally she has it.In the video there's where she says something about how women sometimes settle for less when they have the opportunity to get that guy or relationship/marriage they want.Every woman deserves to be treated right,well apart from the evil ones but you get what I mean.I really don't like settling for second and like I always say,no matter how much I love you if you're not giving me your all or treating me like I deserve to be treated then I'm gonna drop you like its hot and keep looking for what I want.
Watch video here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9PbTaIaC7Xg
Sunday, September 13, 2009
l<3ṿε ïṡ јυṡτ α ώøɾḋ υṉlεṡṡ υ ώαṉṉα ṡhαɾε ώïτh ṃε
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..So the last time I blogged was in July? Damn..blame it on way too many things happening and way too little time to blog about them..
Summer is going by so fast it's not even funny,I wish it would stay for a few more months because this year I really don't feel like facing Winter at all. But I'm glad I had lotsa beautiful days of sunshine,love and fun with friends and family..Speaking of family,my fam came from home to spend the rest of Summer with me.I was thrilled,didn't realize how much I missed them till I spotted them in the airport *tear*..The plan was to spend as much time as I could with them because I had a major surgery coming up.So we went to the theme parks,boat riding,dinner at Chinese and shopping..there's no Summer vacation without shopping.And on days when we didn't go out or nights when we couldn't sleep,we played Nintendo Wii in the sitting room.I especially enjoyed bonding with my teenage lil sis,she's so excited about growing up and she loves responsibilities.
My two youngest siblings were always dragging me to the parks so they could get on the swings..Ok I admit I love swings too and I don't mind taking them everyday,the problem was when it was time to leave,they cried all the way home,I guess we're all suckers for swings..And before I forget,my 2 year old brother loooooves lipgloss! Don't ask me why or how but he does.First time I noticed was when he walked into the sitting room and I asked,"Ruffy what's that shiny thing on your lips?"..And he responded with "lipglossh"..I couldn't help but laugh,I tried to explain to him that boys don't wear lipgloss but homeboy wouldn't listen,it got to a point where I had to start hiding my lipgloss because they were always in his pockets and he wouldn't let me or anyone have them.
August 17 came and I had to go into surgery so it was bye-bye chilling and hello another battle to fight.Part of me was scared but the 
other part was calm because I knew I had done this too many times before and the only choice I had was to survive,so I did ;)..I got discharged 12 days after surgery and my Dad came..He's still here chilling and putting me on ho
use arrest because we all know the only thing that can bring me down is pain and since I'm not in pain,I'll probably be out all day when I shouldn't be.So far he's not doing his job well as he has taken me shopping twice already :D
So I think that's that..Gonna go enjoy the rest of the sunny days before it's officially Fall,windy and cold..Hope everyone had 
a beautiful Summer..ex.oh
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Live your life to the fullest..
…otherwise it will pass you by!
I’m not here to preach,but I’m going to beg you all,including me,to live our lives to the fullest. Because life goes by so fast and suddenly you realize a lot has happened or changed, you realize you’re not getting any younger, you realize you’ve been too busy making plans and dreaming to actually live those dreams. Sometimes we get so caught up in random and pointless things that we don’t see the beauty in the rain falling (yeah I know it just messed up your hair and Burberry shoes), and then suddenly there’re no flowers growing and no food in the farms and it hits you that there’s no rain! Well guess what,it came but you were too busy worrying about your messed up hair and clothes to appreciate it. I try to always smile,laugh,live and love, and I believe everyone should,we only have one life and its such a privilege to be able to still breathe when millions are fighting for their lives and other millions are dead and gone. The least we could do is truly live the life we’re given borrowed.
Girls fight over things I can’t even begin to understand, it might be a silly,or serious issue,but whatever it is, why do we have to let our pride get in the way? Will “I’m sorry” really take something away from you? If you’re even planning on apologizing why not just do it now rather than wait on the other person to say sorry first,you have a chance of reaching out to your friend or family just as much as they do. Life scares me,after all my experiences and challenges,it still scares me,because guess what,it’s so full of surprises, and the worst part is just when you think you’re ready and prepared you get knocked off your feet,then you wonder what happened to the lessons you learnt and the times when you thought you’re ready for anything and everything. Nothing is guaranteed, say what you have to say today because I might not be here tomorrow..and tomorrow is only 24 hours away anyway. If you’re too proud to be the bigger person and apologize then think about this. If something happens to your friend or family tomorrow and you didn’t get to say all you needed to,will you regret it? If your answer is yes then why waste time beating around the bush when you know nothing’s for sure,if your answer however is no..then good luck with your grudge.
The rain might mess up your day but it smells heavenly and comes with beautiful flowers and food, the sun might threaten to melt you down but summer is still fun and it’s all about the sunshine, winter might be too cold but how else are we supposed to appreciate the sun when it comes back in April? Being sick sucks big time,especially the whole pills and needles part, and in some cases surgeries and risky treatments, but that’s the best way to teach us about appreciating our health.Situations suck,but we learn and grow from them, and being positive through out them will make us stronger, confident and teach us how to appreciate the hardships in life,for there’s no rainbow without rain,or is it storm? Hmm.. how about this : No pain, no gain..every Nigerian can testify to that,amen!
I always try my best to be there for anyone who needs me,friends or family, to always smile,even when something is killing me inside, to love,everyone who knows me can testify that I’m a sucker for love, and to live my life to the fullest, trust me its not as easy as it looks on the outside, I’m going through a lot just like you and others, but I still drop my sad and blue days to hang out with friends and family,shop,drool over Usher and watch his live performances for the umpteenth time,shop,fall in love,smile and make others smile,and fall in love again.I’m scared of life and its surprises, but I’m also terrified of letting life pass me by because I was too caught up in something I was going through or because I was too distracted by silly things that didn’t matter. No one wants to grow old or die with regrets, and we all want to be remembered by the joys,laughter,smiles and love that came with us,with or without the complications in our lives. People are dying and it could be me tomorrow,or you,so I guess what I’m trying to say is live,laugh and love today,forgive,apologize,smile and live life to the fullest!
..Here’s a song by Miley Cyrus(I know I’m 21 but hey,don’t judge),listen to it,and by listen I mean the words not the beats ;)
XoXo
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
The Vacation
Holaaaa!!!! omG I miss blogging! *tear
..You must forgive me,I was supposed to be away for only 3 weeks,but London was soo much fun that I had to keep postponing.I had the time of my life really.Met old friends I haven't seen in ages,and by ages I mean 10 years and up.I met really cool people I only knew through facebook,and made lotsa new friends..
..So about London,I probably toured only once,that was when Ilham's friend came into town..and guess who that friend is..Nigerian Drama Queen!! Yup now I can brag about meeting a blogger too,woot! Anyhoo,we all met at Buckingham's Palace,twas raining but we made it fun,walked all the way to Trafalger square,stopped to get some yummy and sexy chicken and then final stop was AQ on Edgware Road to have Shisha.The rest of my stay in London I was too busy hooking up with friends,shopping and hanging out to bother about touring really.It was crazy running on little sleep and redbull.I was out every single day,from morning till night!My legs and back ached but I wouldn't rest,I was having fun and sitting at home chilling was outta the question!..I got to watch Drag Me To Hell with Ilham and Amina,that movie was supposed to be horror but it ended up being plain disgusting,good movie though!..Then I watched Angels & Demons with my sis and Deedix,loved it..very unpredictable,still wanna read the book though..and then I watched Transformers 2 with Ilham,Jamil and Bello,the soundtrack is still stuck in my head.
..Other fun moments were sleepovers at Ilham's were we stayed up late to play guitar hero,talk about boys or swim.Bowling with Abdulrazaq and Abdulsalam was also part of it,though I came last..yeah whatever!
..My sister..diamondchiq,Habiba Sanusi,Ya Bee..which other names does she go by again? Girl you're like Diddy,stick to one name will ya?,lunched her perfume called Beloved, so I,Ilham and Jamil had to go to Oxford street and give samples to passersby,it was mucho fun.We all agreed to wear bright and catchy colors but coincidentally all ended up wearing yellow.
Before I forget,another blogger I met was IamShhh,I shall not mention her name here because I'm not sure if she blogs anonymously or not,but really cool girl and I always love what she wears,babe you gotta help me do some designing when I finally start my clothing line! Thank you in advance!..Also got to meet the awesome make-up lover a.k.a Her Royal Poshness,check out their blogs people!
..So after London,I and Ilham decided to go to Belgium and visit the twins for a week.We went to Mini-Europe,abi Euro..don't remember which one but its basically a place with landmark's from lots,if not all European countries.There was the Big Ben from London,Eiffel Tower from Paris,EU Headquaters from Belgium e.t.c.We also visited the Grand Place and Chocolate Musuem.It was mucho interesting learning the history of chocolates and seeing the making of it live!Did you know Nigeria is the third largest supplier of Cocoa for Chocolate making in Belgium..Sigh,we rock!..After touring Chocolate Museum,we had yummy Belgian Waffles and then bought lots and lots of Chocolates.I still miss those Belgian Waffles,don't understand why there're no Belgian restaurants in Vienna..not fair!!..Anyhoo,went bowling in Belgium as well,in between searching for Shisha bars,and went shopping as well.Brussels is a lot like Vienna,only smaller.
..Belgium ended too soon,had to come back to London and do last minute shopping,say bye to everyone,pack and return "home"..I hate Austria *smh!
..Check out the slideshow and enjoy,x
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
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Wednesday, June 10, 2009
El-Oh-Vee-Eee
What do you get when you put three friends who're very much in love with their men together? I'll answer that.The result is endless discussion on love,relationships and that special Mr.I always thought I was a sucker for love,till I met Mrs.S and Mrs.M.The look on their faces when they talked about their beaus was priceless.And when I joined in the conversation,I realized we were all bitten by the love bug,and no medicine could cure us.
Mrs.S would go on and on about how she loves her Mr, she told us about the fun and beautiful memories they had together,and the bright future they were looking forward to starting once school was out of the way..
Then Mrs.M would go into detail about how there's no one but him,about how much they love each other,they way they sit and talk to each other about different issues that could hurt their relationship and how to avoid those issues.
It was my turn to talk about Mr.A but I only broke into a sheepish smile and mumbled about how I just love him and how everything feels smooth and good with him..and the love convo ended there..
..till last night when I was chatting with Mrs.M on MSN messenger and we somehow continued with the love convo,I told her about my past relationships and how I never felt the need or urge to try and work things out because of the reasons why the relationships went bad in the first place.I'm not gonna go into detail on those reasons but they basically have to do with "if you can't handle me at my worst,then you don't deserve me at my best"..So I just left and continued to search for the one who I was sure will stand by me through thick and thin.And I found him,but the feeling scares me.I am 100% sure I am in love but it feels different this time.It feels deeper,better,secure and true.Even though I was sure of what I was feeling,I didn't understand it much and I was still confused,till Mrs.M replied me with "..you're definitely in love" and for some reason,everything made sense after that.
